Wednesday, February 3, 2010
School
We are still a bit undecided about Isaac. We have been thinking that we will home school him, but have recently been rethinking that and may end up sending him to school. Trying to weigh up what is best for him and what is best for us. Not sure that our reasons for keeping him at home are valid anymore.
Ethan starts his first day of school next Monday. I think he is a little nervous, but he is definitely ready. Grace also starts a new school, Morgan street. We weren't happy with some things at the old school so we decided to change. If Isaac goes to school he will go there. One downer is that we will have to drive the kids to school, but the change will be worth it I think.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Blue gum forest part 2
Eventually we reached Junction Rock which was the junction of three tracks (one of the being blocked by the landslide). It was good to be past the downhill section and the map showed only one steep bit. it is often the case that the flat sections go on longer than you expect and it was a welcome relief to reach the campsite at Acacia Flat. Perhaps due to the weather we found the campsite empty and we were able to pick out the best campsite. I am pretty fussy and I always think that there might just be a better option around the next corner, so I had to look everywhere before choosing.
The views are pretty stunning at the start of the walk, but the highlight for is the campsite. Stunning Blue gums tower above you, straight as an arrow, tall and majestic against the sky. They really are amazing trees and it is no wonder that they needed protecting from logging as they would have made terrific timber. It was really quite enjoyable to set up camp at a leisurely pace, cook tea and enjoy each others company. We slept in the tent as it had rained during the day and sure enough it rained through the night. It is not a bad tent by mountain designs, with good ventilation and plenty of room for gear in the 2 vestibules. It doesn't have good access in wet weather though and would be very hard to cook in when the weather turned really ugly. Once you are in though it is pretty snug and would handle a fair bit thrown at it.
So, did Millie enjoy it? Yes, despite the pain. Will Millie do it again? Yes, she says she will. Perhaps a bit of an easier one next time.Thursday, December 24, 2009
Blue gum forest part 1
For a long time now I have been wanting to introduce Millie to an overnight bushwalk. In October we organised the kids to be looked after with the grandparents and headed into the Blue mountains loaded with gear. I wanted to walk down into the Blue gum forest in the Grose Valley near Blackheath. I had good memories of the walk from years before, although I couldn't remember it in much detail. I did have some advice that it might be a bit hard for a first walk, but I thought that it would be ok.
Our plan was to park the car at Govetts Leap (a leap is a name for a waterfall) and then walk around to Evans lookout and down into the Gross Valley. Unfortunately the track was closed due to a landslide, but we didn't find this out until we had reached Evan's lookout. It was a bit discouraging getting back to the car for lunch 3 hours later only to be beginning the walk. I tried to be positive about the experience as it was a really nice walk, but I am not sure that Millie was convinced.Monday, December 21, 2009
Sunday, December 20, 2009
justice
We live in a country which nobly tries to perpetuate justice through the legal system. While there are many issues with such a system it does do well in ensuring that people are justly tried without prejudice or partiality. One of the repercussions of such a system is that people who should be convicted are not because of a lack of evidence or incorrect procedure, even if it is clear to everyone that they are guilty. The alternative though would be to allow justice to be administered by those who believe they know the truth, or worse by those whose prejudice would cause the 'truth' to be fabricated or twisted.
There are many examples in other countries where people are unjustly tried for their religious beliefs or for their political convictions. There are also examples where local courts made up of elders in the community function well. I would hazard a guess that these systems do not work any worse than a highly centralised legal system. In the end any legal system depends on the integrity of those involved.
Recently we experienced the nature of the law much more intimately when four juveniles broke into the house that we had been moving out of and proceeded to ransack and vandalise it. There was not a great deal of damage, it was just destructive. Thankfully we had a lot of people to help clean up the mess and finish packing up our stuff. A good thing about it was that it sped up our move, although we still have a lot of boxes to sort through.
One of the things that I learnt about the legal system in this country through the incident is that you can't commit a criminal act if you are under 10 years old. Is it true that you can't commit a criminal act under 10? Of course not. In this country though there is no accountability for such an act if you are under 10. Now I am not recommending that a child under 10 should be put through the justice system, however to have a situation where there is no accountability at all is only going to produce negative results. Surely parents should have some accountability for the actions of their children. Knowing about the family situations of children who are often involved in these actions it cannot be left up to the good will of the parents.
For me it was not hard to forgive the children that were involved. It was easy to see that they were victims themselves. Even though I could forgive them logically, I still felt a lot of anger towards them because of what they had done. Emotions are a tricky thing and they are not dismissed easily. it is important not to dismiss them or cover them up but find a way to express them.
One thing that I have learnt through experience is that God brings good things out of bad. I was able to meet with two set of the parents and talk with the children involved. I had a good time talking with one, prayed with them and shared with them about God's goodness. The boy came around and helped me clean up the yard. The family is struggling but was upset about the actions of their son. At first it didn't seem much use in seeing the other family as they are in a very broken situation, but I knew that God wanted me to see them. About a week later the mother came and saw me after the school presentation night and apologised for what had happened. She said that they were going to be getting counselling for their son and really appreciated me coming to see them.
I don't know what will be the outcome for those families, but what I do know is that God has already been bringing about goodness through this whole thing. At the very least the boys have been on my mind and I have sent up many prayers on behalf of those families.
"In all things God works for the good of those that love him and have been called according to his purposes." Rom 8:28


